CLOTHING REALLY DETERMINES "THE RESPECT " ?

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In the societies around the world, females and what they should wear is always a question. As we women and girls reach to our closet to check what we can wear our thinking process multiplies by 10.

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THIS IS WHAT COMES IN OUR MIND.

WHAT Color?, What Type? DEEP Neck? Halter neck ? Tube? Kurta? Saree? Mini Skirts? Crop Top? Mini or Long Skirt? Shorts or Long? High or low? One piece, Two piece or Three piece? Cover through dupatta , Wear the Dupatta or not to wear it? Show my Tummy or not? What in formals? which jeans?What in Traditionals? Whether to wear a bikni or not? Wear a Stocking? Wear a PantyHose? What to wear in Periods ?

MY GODDD!! So  much to think about picking up a dress.

THIS IS WHAT SOCIETY THINKS.

Have no shame, showing over, what people will think, might have so many boyfriends, might have been drug/ alcohol addict, Mother and Father did not taught all about clothes, they didn't cared about the child, no Sanskars, no fear, showing nudity, wearing so less, family don't have a good income , wearing so tight whole body structure is visible, should have wear good  normal undies, bla bla bla.
People start to use abusive annotations for the girls.

After watching a girl well dressed all get mesmerized otherwise she is boycotted by all good people as a chance to play with their Respect in the society.

THIS WAY ONE SHOULD THINK.

Freedom, Intelligence, Achievements, Knowledge, Behaviour, Talents, Work, One's Perspective,  Household work and office Work,Interest, efforts one do,struggles one has gone through, Interest one has, Qualities, Uniqueness should be kept in mind before judging anyone from its outer cover.

I request all women and men to be open minded before making any statement about anyone.

Watch this video you will understand for sure.




If you are sad or feeling uneasy, getting such disturbing thoughts, want to talk about the dressing as well , feel free to contact through:

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