Building your capacity and watching your capabilities grow : SURVIVING IN the male dominance society.

I wake up every morning and do exercise & then see the newspaper. Really I find it not very shocking but, really feel the male dominance. Women are always considered to be soft spoken and not independent in also taking small decisions like where to sleep at night, what to cook, and above all where she can go alone safely. Safety?? Is that a question?? How then males are safe? Just think about it? The answer to this question is they build themselves strong to fight with anyone anywhere.

 But You will also find it surprising what our mythologies have it has been told by Lord Shiva to Goddess Mata Parvati that “If she eliminates Shanka(a feeling of being less self - confident ) then she becomes Shankar”. Then Devi Parvati collects her powers and reminds herself as a “Soul – Power” of the universe and keeps killing all the devils on this earth even they regenerate.

       ALL 9 DEVIS ARE 9 POWERS THAT REMAINS INSIDE EVERY GIRL.

Just WE need to feel that Power. Nau (nine) devi’s are THE NAME OF THE DIFFERENT POWERS ONE FEMALE HAS. Nine soulful AVATARS one female can take whenever needed in any situation anywhere.As I said just we need to feel that power within.We are diamonds and can shine from any angle also if we get broken. All I know is women is the only power capable of anything. You can exercise , eat less, drink lots of juices, smoothies and survive without taking a drop of alcohol because you are the super power and only those boys need alcohol and Nasha Patta who play with a girl’s heart, brain, body and soul and feel that a girl always need sympathy , care, is not intelligent, cannot solve her things, cannot dress on her own, get easily influenced by the comments and cannot do anything. We should keep ignoring such guys always.

STOP IGNORING ANY KIND OF LADY AROUND YOU: THEY AREN’T DIFFERENT FROM YOU.

Ladies , girls, daughters and mothers every female has a same genre of lives going through in their different age stages; whether that female is aware or not, but yes the other female has behaved and reacted in the same manner at some point of time in similar stage that you are in right now. So , who better can understand! Our mothers are our best counselors, and if not you and find an aunt in your neighborhood or any - any lady in your family or girl who is your sister, female cousin anyone. They are perfect powerhouse. Just take out the blacked out slips put on by the guys and boyfriends on you and try to see what ladies around you are good at , and you will like and love to enjoy their companies. It might happen they may be looking for love from your side as you are looking from love from their side. 

                                       

     LET’S TALK ABOUT FEMALE TO FEMALE SECURITY

For Female, another female is the most secure person to stay with. They won’t hurt you, females are extra caring, and always emotionally strong and try to bring you stronger by commenting wherever you are wrong. If any female criticize sometimes try to take it in a good way sometimes, because it will build your capacity to face anyone around you verbally and physically. And a female , more experienced  than you might not have got that many resources as you have right now, like TV, Refrigerators, mobile phones, microwave, AC, microwave, books to read and notebooks to write and learn.So, they might have less information on how to use those things well, operate well, how much weight they can bear, please tell them and make them see.. would like to Quote what Sakshi Malik, Indian Wrestler, said in

The Kapil Sharma Show,”When we practice with someone more stronger than us , we really build and grow”.She said in the context that , very few girls chose wrestling in their sport specialization. As guys were more than girls so she usually had practice with the guys. So she build herself stronger by facing the tougher. As we increase our limits we attain a new level of us.

Build your strength by “NOT BEING LAZY”, “ELIMINATE The Word LAZY from INSIDE” You will really overcome your thresholds and build new thresholds everyday and find more time for yourself and your family . Always keep in mind, FIRST COMES YOU , “IF YOU WILL BE HAPPY, HEALTHY AND FIT”. You will be capable of energizing others and THAT’s what a WOMEN IS BLESSED FOR. For getting more tips  you can read the fomer post for making a good routine.

WHOM TO CONSULT AND TAKE ADVICE FROM!

WE are just growing and when we grow we should look for more opportunities in our surroundings and the people we are going to connect with; we should analyze their mindsets taking our elder sister or mother with us or our just younger brother; whom you think; they understand the mindset of other cunning and clever boys(.ya fir chota bhai bhi ho toh , jo apko lagta hai ki vo jyada badmash logo (ladko) ki mindset acche se smjh skta hai). Sometimes the female cousins and sisters who advised me used to say “AB TOH APNE MUMMY, BEHEN, BHUA, MAMI, DADI,aur NANI jo bhi female hai uss par vishwas kar vo tujhe ladwana nahin chahte bs smjhana chahte hai ki aise log sari duniya men hai jawab dena seekh aur faltu k khawaab dekhna nahi theek aur jisne galat kiya tere sath usse bare mein sochna band kr aura age badh” (which means “ Please believe in your Mummy, real sister ,Maternal and Paternal grandmothers in India.)

You may watch this Ophrah winfrey video, which really inspires that you have all the power within you. Building your wisdom and doing in accordance and confidence with you makes you powerful. Take initiative and thus empowerment will come through responsibilities.

Feel free to discuss anything you want about any topic with me. if you feel some dilemma in sharing you can mail me on my private email : mekhladiwan@gmail.com.

Stay free , feel free and Live the life.