Showing Up "YOUR & OUR EMOTIONS" is important !

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Whenever we are communicating, showing our emotions is very important.It is not at all that we should only focus on what others think.


HOW TO EXPRESS IN INDIA!

In India , there is a saying ("Well known KAHAWAT" in Hindi), " SUBSE BADA ROG KYA KAHENGE LOG". I would like to add on it, "SUBSE BADA ROG KYA KAHENGE OR SOCHENGE LOG". It is true that  we should think about what we are speaking, which "words" we are uttering & we should always have a good command on what we feel. We should know , "WHAT WE FEEL".We should know appropriate words to express otherwise it is misunderstood and our feelings remain unexpressed. Speaking in the language people understand is very important. What expression is taken for what feeling is also very important. This is a thing which especially I think girls should learn and make other girls aware about it. 

CONTEXT IS VERY IMPORTANT!

The words used in any context should be conveyed in a linguistic which can be understood by the person we want to convey. Context should be very clear. The time you are hitting a person's emotion in that context is very very important.The clarity of your words fixed with your emotions should be present otherwise the whole conversation becomes senseless and will cause no impact.
A very common example, (commonly among Indian people), BHAIS K AAGE BEEN BAJA  K KYA FAYDA".There is no point of sharing in front of the person who is not even in a condition to understand. Like a person who has learned music as a subject if we talk about the chemistry ,esp. reactions while he is playing music , he won't understand. 

LANGUAGE IS VERY IMPORTANT!

If we speak in Chinese in front of the person who had only known Hindi, then may be the feelings and expression could convey something , but the language is still not known to us & we cannot understand exactly what is being " SAID"  but may understand what is tried to be conveyed. Most of the people can understand the emotion but not in what context or for what the thing is being said. Especially while talking to parents , we need to use the language we can convey our feeling best and make our parents understand the things in a very simple way, otherwise they will keep watching dictionary and our faces. LOL!

LOUDNESS, PITCH AND SPEED IS IMPORTANT !

So , emotions with words its loudness , pitch and speed of speaking plays very important role in what to convey. The emotional aspect involved with these para linguistics helps to create a deeper down impact on the person's mind. Loudness and pitch should be with the right word. It is very important to use these attributes with the right word otherwise that word sound emotion - less.

WHY IT IS IMPORTANT TO SHOW YOUR EMOTIONS?

Showing our emotions is very important because it will increase our confidence to speak, will let us know how we can work on our speech. Like we can minimize our aggression and convey what we want to say. It helps us to get red of INNER FRUSTRATIONS we have. So, speaking is very important and sharing our emotions to the very appropriate person is really important without anticipating about what work the other person is doing. That is its responsibility to complete and do the work in his / her time so let them decide whether they can talk to us. We should stop assuming about what others will think in sharing what we feel just say it.

Any question? You can put in the comment BOX. HaVe A Showing Feeling Day! Enjoy ! Feel Good!






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